खम्मा घणी Khamma ghani, a Rajasthani welcome
Rows of intricately carved white marble pillars inside the Jain temple at Ranakpur
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Temple etiquette in Rajasthan, as our family taught it to us

Our grandmother never entered a temple without first touching the step with her fingertips and then her forehead. She did not expect our guests to do the same. But she loved it when they took their shoes off without being asked, covered their shoulders and stood quietly while the priest finished the aarti. Rajasthan's temples are living places of worship, and a little knowledge lets you be welcome in all of them.

These are living temples, not museums

At five in the morning in Nathdwara, the lanes are already full of families in their best clothes, waiting for the doors to open as if for a beloved child to wake.

In daily use: most temples have priests who rise before dawn, worshippers every morning, and rituals in the same order for centuries.

You are a guest: in someone's house of prayer, often at the very hour that matters most to them.

Three ideas behind every rule
Purity
The temple is kept clean
Presence
The deity is honoured
Prayer
Others should not be disturbed
Faiths
Hindu, Jain, Sufi, Sikh
Visitors
Welcome at almost all
  • Not tests for visitors: the rules are the ordinary courtesies worshippers follow themselves.
  • Once you see the three ideas: most of the customs explain themselves.
  • Many faiths in a day: a Hindu temple, a Jain temple, a Sufi dargah and a Sikh gurdwara, each with its own customs.
  • Welcome, with rules: visitors of all faiths are welcome at almost all of them, provided they follow the rules.
  • The traditions themselves: our page on faith and temples in Rajasthan; this guide is about how to behave when you are there.
Local tip
At five in the morning in Nathdwara, the lanes are already full of families in their best clothes, waiting for the doors to open as if for a beloved child to wake. Go once at that hour.

What to wear, and what to leave behind

The easiest temple day starts in the hotel wardrobe: loose cotton, a scarf, socks in your bag and nothing made of leather.

Cover shoulders and knees: long skirts, loose trousers, kurtas and shirts with sleeves are ideal.

Not appropriate: shorts, short skirts, sleeveless tops and tight or see-through clothes.

Carry a large scarf: it covers your head at a dargah or gurdwara, your shoulders if a temple asks, and your face from dust on the road.

  • Slip-on shoes: you may remove them several times in one morning.
  • Bring socks: marble and stone floors can burn in summer and chill on winter mornings. Some temples allow socks, and Karni Mata at Deshnoke is easier with them.
  • Bare feet: other temples, or their inner shrines, ask for them.
  • No leather on Jain temple days: belts, wallets, handbags, camera and watch straps and shoes stay in the car; many Hindu temples prefer the same.
  • Leave behind: cigarettes, alcohol and food containing meat or eggs.
  • Simple jewellery: keep valuables to a minimum, because crowded temples attract pickpockets like any busy place.
  • For everyone: modest dress is expected of men and women alike. It isn't about looking smart, but about not drawing attention to the body in a sacred place.
  • More ideas: our etiquette and dress guide, what to wear in temples and Rajasthani dress and textiles.
Local tip
The easiest temple day starts in the hotel wardrobe: loose cotton, a scarf, socks in your bag and nothing made of leather.

At the door: shoes, water and the bell

Watch the families ahead of you at the gate. Within a minute they will show you almost everything you need to know.

Shoes first: they come off before you enter, and often before you climb the steps or step onto a ghat.

Where to leave them: at the shoe stand, where an attendant keeps them for a small tip, or in the car with your chauffeur.

Never: carry shoes inside in a bag, or walk barefoot from the shoe stand into the street and back into the temple.

At the door
Shoes
Off where everyone else removes them
Shoe stand
A small tip on collection
Hands and feet
Wash at the tap if you like
The bell
Ring once, gently
Threshold
Step over, never stand on it
Phone
Silent
  • Washing: many worshippers wash hands and feet at a tap near the entrance, and you are welcome to do the same.
  • The bell: hangs inside the door of most Hindu temples; worshippers ring it to announce themselves to the deity and clear the mind.
  • The threshold: many people step over it rather than on it, and some touch it and then their forehead. You need not copy this, but don't stand or sit on it.
  • Parikrama: walk around shrines clockwise, keeping the shrine on your right, a form of worship in itself.
  • Feet: never point them towards a shrine, a deity or a priest when sitting.
  • Hands off: don't touch images of the gods, or the offerings before them, unless a priest invites you to.
Local tip
Watch the families ahead of you at the gate. Within a minute they will show you almost everything you need to know.

Inside: darshan, aarti and prasad

When the curtain opens before the image of the god, the whole room leans forward at once. This is darshan, seeing and being seen by the deity, and it is the reason everyone has come.
The carved white stone spire and steps of Jagdish Temple in Udaipur's old city
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Darshan

The sacred moment: in a Hindu temple, darshan is standing before the image and looking upon it, seeing and being seen by the deity.

  • Set times: at Shrinathji in Nathdwara, doors open only at set times for short darshans, and the crowd can press forward hard.
  • Where to stand: where your guide suggests, hands to yourself, with worshippers at the front.
  • A step back: watching respectfully from there is always welcome.

Aarti

The offering of light: a priest waves a lamp of burning ghee or camphor before the deity while bells ring and worshippers sing.

  • When: often at dawn and dusk.
  • During it: stand still and quiet until it ends.
  • Afterwards: when the priest brings the lamp around, worshippers pass their hands over the flame and touch their eyes and forehead. You may do the same, or simply stand respectfully.

Prasad

A shared blessing: food offered to the deity and then shared, usually a sweet, sugar crystals or fruit.

  • How to accept: with your right hand, or both hands cupped, never the left alone.
  • Eat a little: it is polite, and you can quietly give the rest to your guide or driver.
  • Never: throw it away in front of others or put it on the floor.

Tilak and sacred threads

Tilak: a priest may offer a mark of red or saffron paste on your forehead.

  • Mauli: or tie a red and yellow thread around your wrist.
  • Your choice: accept or politely decline; if you accept, a small offering in the box or to the priest is usual, and our guide will tell you what is fitting.

The inner sanctum

Garbhagriha: the innermost shrine is often open only to priests.

  • Particular customs: at the Brahma Temple in Pushkar, tradition holds that married men do not enter the inner sanctum, and offerings go through the priests from the outer hall.
  • Follow the signs: and the guidance of the priests and your guide.

How to behave, in a few lines

If you remember only one thing, remember this: move slowly and speak softly, and nobody will ever mind you being there.

Voice and pace: keep your voice low and your movements unhurried.

Don't block worshippers: especially near the sanctum and during aarti.

Couples: avoid holding hands, embracing or kissing inside a temple.

  • No eating: or drinking or chewing gum inside, apart from prasad you are given.
  • Right hand: to give and receive offerings, money and prasad.
  • Leaving the shrine: don't turn your back abruptly; step back a few paces before turning.
  • People at prayer: don't touch or step over them.
  • Children: keep them close and quiet, and explain beforehand what they will see. See travelling with children.
  • When unsure: ask your guide, or simply watch what the worshippers do.
Local tip
If you remember only one thing, remember this: move slowly and speak softly, and nobody will ever mind you being there.

Photography, phones and cameras

Some of the most beautiful interiors in Rajasthan, Dilwara above all, have never been properly photographed by visitors, because cameras are not allowed inside. That is part of their power.

Deities: never photograph the image of a deity unless you are clearly told it is allowed.

People: never photograph people at prayer, bathing at a ghat or receiving a blessing without asking first, and accept a refusal gracefully.

Camera rules at the great temples
Nathdwara
No phones or cameras inside
Dilwara
No phones or cameras inside
Ranakpur
Own rules; no photos of tirthankara images
Ajmer Sharif
Not inside the tomb or during prayers
Everywhere
No flash, tripods or drones
  • Bathers: never photograph women bathing at the ghats of Pushkar or anywhere else.
  • Deposit counters: at Nathdwara and Dilwara, leave phones and cameras in the car or at the counter.
  • Ranakpur fees: the temple's rules can include a separate ticket for cameras or phones.
  • Ajmer Sharif: put your phone away during the qawwali and the evening rituals.
  • Rules vary and change: always follow what is posted at the entrance and what priests and staff tell you.
  • Typical patterns: some temples forbid phones and cameras entirely, some allow courtyards but not deities, and some charge a separate camera fee. See our photography tips.
Local tip
Some of the most beautiful interiors in Rajasthan, Dilwara above all, have never been properly photographed by visitors. Leave the phone in the car and just look.

Different faiths, different customs

On a single street in Ajmer you can pass a Hindu temple, a Jain temple and the gate of a great Sufi shrine. Each asks something slightly different of you.
Customs by faith
Hindu temples
Shoes off, covered, clockwise
Jain temples
No leather, very modest, no food
Dargahs
Head covered, men and women
Mosques
Avoid prayer times, Friday midday
Gurdwaras
Head covered, langar open to all

Hindu temples

The basics: shoes off, shoulders and knees covered, leather best left outside, a quiet voice and a clockwise walk around the shrine.

  • Who may enter: visitors of other faiths are generally welcome, though a few temples or inner shrines may restrict entry, and the priests' word is final.
  • Bring: small notes for the donation box.

Jain temples

The strictest rules: because Jainism holds that no living being should be harmed.

  • What to do: leave all leather outside, dress very modestly, and bring no food or drink inside.
  • Visiting hours: many keep the early part of the day for worship and admit non-Jain visitors later, so we plan Ranakpur and the Dilwara temples around them.
  • Mouth cloths: some worshippers wear a cloth over their mouths to avoid harming tiny living beings. Please don't photograph them without asking.

Dargahs and mosques

At a dargah: the shrine of a Sufi saint, cover your head, men and women alike, remove your shoes, and keep arms and legs covered.

  • At Ajmer Sharif: at the Ajmer Sharif Dargah, a basket of roses and, if you wish, a chadar, an embroidered cloth for the tomb, make a proper offering.
  • At mosques: avoid prayer times, especially Friday midday prayers; women may be asked to visit only certain areas.

Gurdwaras

Everyone welcome: cover your head with a scarf or the cloth provided, remove your shoes and wash your hands and feet.

  • Never: bring tobacco or alcohol anywhere near.
  • Langar: a free communal meal eaten sitting on the floor, open to all; accepting it is an honour, and helping wash up is a kind gesture.

Shrines of folk deities

Hero-gods: Ramdevji, Pabuji, Gogaji and others, in shrines often small, painted and alive with devotion.

  • Same courtesies: shoes off, modest dress, quiet voices.
  • Ask first: some are cared for by a single family and have their own customs.
Local tip
On a single street in Ajmer you can pass a Hindu temple, a Jain temple and the gate of a great Sufi shrine. Keep a scarf in your bag all day, and you are ready for each.

Rajasthan's great temples, and what each asks of you

Every famous temple in Rajasthan has its own small rules, and knowing them in advance turns a nervous visit into a wonderful one.
The marble courtyard of the Karni Mata temple at Deshnoke near Bikaner
Photo: Günther Jontes, CC BY 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons
Each temple's rule
Ranakpur
Non-Jains later in the day
Dilwara
Limited hours, no photos
Nathdwara
Eight jhankis; no phones or bags
Karni Mata
Socks, slow steps
Galtaji
No food on show for the monkeys
Ajmer Sharif
Head covered, bags searched

Ranakpur

Morning for worship: the great marble Jain temple in the Aravalli valley opens to non-Jain visitors later.

  • What to do: leave all leather in the car, cover shoulders and knees, and follow the temple's photography rules.
  • Posted rules: the temple also posts rules about entry for women during menstruation.
Read the Ranakpur guide

Dilwara, Mount Abu

Five Jain temples: of astonishing marble carving.

  • Limited hours: for non-Jain visitors, occasionally changed, so we confirm them for the week you travel.
  • The rules: no photography, no leather, modest dress and bare feet.
Read about the Dilwara temples

Shrinathji, Nathdwara

Eight jhankis: Shrinathji gives eight short darshans a day, following the routine of a child.

  • Not allowed inside: phones, cameras and bags.
  • The crowd: joyful but presses hard, so stand with your guide and let the devotees reach the front.
Read the Nathdwara guide

Brahma Temple and the ghats, Pushkar

Shoes: off before stepping onto any ghat.

  • Bathers: never photograph them.
  • The flower trick: politely decline anyone who presses a flower into your hand, leads you to a ghat for a blessing and then asks for a large donation.
  • A genuine ritual: your own guide can arrange one with a trusted priest.
Read about the Brahma Temple

Karni Mata, Deshnoke

The goddess's family: the temple near Bikaner is home to thousands of rats, called kabas, protected as her kin.

  • How to walk: barefoot with socks, slowly, so you never step on one.
  • A living shrine: treat it as one. It is considered lucky if a kaba runs over your foot.
Read about the Karni Mata temple

Ajmer Sharif Dargah

Before the gate: cover your head, remove your shoes at a stall outside, and dress modestly.

  • Security: bags are searched at the entrance.
  • Khadims: the hereditary custodians guide pilgrims and may ask for a donation; a modest offering is entirely enough.
Read about Ajmer Sharif Dargah

Galtaji, Jaipur

Monkeys: the temples and sacred tanks in a gorge east of Jaipur are home to troops of rhesus macaques.

  • What to do: don't carry food openly, don't feed them, and keep bags closed.
  • Dress and water: dress for the temples, and remember the tanks are used for ritual bathing.
Read about Galtaji

Jagdish Temple and Eklingji, Udaipur

Jagdish Temple: in the heart of the old city, busy with worshippers from dawn.

  • Eklingji: about 22 kilometres north, the form of Shiva whom the Maharanas of Mewar served as regents.
  • At both: cover shoulders and knees, leave shoes and leather outside, and follow the posted photography rules.
Read the Udaipur guide

Offerings, donations and priests

In the lanes of a pilgrim town, the line between a priest and a salesman can blur. Your own guide is the surest way to stay on the right side of it.

Natural part of a visit: worshippers bring flowers, coconuts, sweets, incense or a little money, and you are welcome to do the same.

The donation box: a few small notes are always appropriate, and the amount is entirely up to you.

Stalls: many temples sell flowers and sweets for offering near the entrance.

  • Carry small notes: for donation boxes, shoe stands and offerings, and give and receive with your right hand.
  • Don't haggle: over a sacred offering; if a price seems wrong, ask your guide to buy for you.
  • Devoted priests: most serve their temple, many from families that have served the same shrine for generations.
  • Pandas of Pushkar: priestly families who keep records of the pilgrim families they have served for centuries.
  • Pressure tactics: in the busiest towns some people offer flowers or blessings and then ask for a large sum. Give it back with a smile and walk on.
  • Uninvited guides: politely decline anyone who leads you to a shrine and then asks for money.
  • With us: our guide arranges any ritual with a priest the family knows, explains it, and suggests a fitting offering.
  • No commission: we never take any on offerings or temple visits, and never let anyone make you feel obliged to pay more.
Local tip
In a pilgrim town, the line between a priest and a salesman can blur. Your own guide is the surest way to stay on the right side of it.

Customs that may surprise you

Some temple customs come from ideas of purity that are very old, and visitors sometimes find them hard. It helps to understand them before you arrive.

Menstruation notices: many traditional Hindu and Jain temples, including Ranakpur and Dilwara, ask women not to enter during menstruation.

Where it comes from: long-held ideas about ritual purity, observed by many worshippers themselves.

Left to conscience: visitors are not asked to declare anything.

  • If it concerns you: visit the courtyard or skip that temple on the day, and your guide will understand without any explanation.
  • Restricted areas: some temples limit entry to parts of the shrine by faith, gender or marital status, as at Pushkar's Brahma Temple.
  • Hindus only: a few temples in India admit only Hindus, though this is rare in Rajasthan.
  • Bereavement: in many traditional families, people do not visit temples for a period after a close death.
  • Respect without agreement: you need not agree with every custom to respect it while you are a guest.
  • Our guides: always explain the reasons calmly, answer honestly and never put you in an uncomfortable position.

Temples on festival days

On Janmashtami in Nathdwara the whole town stays awake until midnight, and the crowd outside Shrinathji's temple is a single singing body.

Beautiful and crowded: Janmashtami in Nathdwara, Navratri, the Pushkar fair and the Urs at Ajmer Sharif draw enormous numbers of pilgrims.

Same etiquette: with more patience.

Big temple festivals
Nathdwara
Janmashtami
Goddess temples
Navratri
Pushkar ghats
The Pushkar fair
Ajmer Sharif
The Urs
Expect
Queues, crowds, security checks
  • How we plan: the right hour, the right gate, a guide who knows the temple and a chauffeur waiting close by.
  • If crowds trouble you: we choose a quieter time or a viewing place a little apart.
  • Honest advice: we tell you when a festival day is better watched from a rooftop than from inside the temple.
Local tip
On Janmashtami in Nathdwara the whole town stays awake until midnight, and the crowd outside Shrinathji's temple becomes a single singing body. Watch it from a rooftop first.

A temple-day checklist

Put these in your bag the night before, and the morning will look after itself.

Clothes: loose, covering shoulders and knees.

A large scarf or stole: for your head and shoulders.

  • Socks: for hot or cold marble floors, where they are allowed.
  • Shoes: ones you can slip off easily, and no leather if you are visiting Jain temples.
  • Small notes: for donation boxes, shoe stands and offerings.
  • Your phone: on silent, or left in the car where cameras are not allowed.
  • Water and a snack: for afterwards, left in the car rather than carried inside.
  • An open mind: and a guide who can explain what you are seeing.
Local tip
Our grandmother touched the temple step with her fingertips and then her forehead. Nobody expects that of you, but taking off your shoes before you are asked always earns a smile.

Questions about Temple etiquette

These are the questions our guests ask before they come. If yours isn't here, a planner in Jaipur will answer it within a day.

Can non-Hindus visit temples in Rajasthan?

Yes, almost always. Visitors of every faith are welcome in most of Rajasthan's Hindu and Jain temples, provided they dress modestly, remove their shoes and follow the rules. Some temples restrict entry to their inner shrines, and many Jain temples admit non-Jain visitors only at certain hours. Your guide will tell you the custom at each.

What should I wear to a temple in Rajasthan?

Loose clothes that cover your shoulders and knees, for men and women. Avoid shorts, short skirts and sleeveless or see-through tops. Carry a scarf for your head at dargahs and gurdwaras, wear shoes you can slip off, bring socks for hot or cold floors and leave leather behind at Jain temples.

Why can't I wear leather in Jain temples?

Jainism teaches that no living being should be harmed, and leather comes from the killing of animals. Jain temples such as Ranakpur and Dilwara ask visitors to leave all leather outside, including shoes, belts, wallets, handbags, camera straps and watch straps. Leave them in the car or at the lockers by the gate.

Can I take photographs inside Rajasthan's temples?

It depends on the temple. Nathdwara and the Dilwara temples do not allow cameras or phones inside. Ranakpur sets its own rules, and photographs of the tirthankara images are not allowed. Many temples forbid photographs of deities. Always follow posted rules, and ask before photographing anyone at prayer.

Do I need to cover my head in temples?

In most Hindu and Jain temples it is not required, though many local women do. At Sufi dargahs such as Ajmer Sharif and at Sikh gurdwaras, everyone, men and women, should cover their head. Carry a large scarf, and gurdwaras usually provide head coverings at the entrance.

How much should I give as a temple donation?

Whatever you wish. A few small notes in the donation box are always appropriate. If a priest gives you a blessing, a tilak or a sacred thread, a modest offering is customary. Politely decline anyone who leads you to a shrine uninvited and asks for a large sum, and let your guide arrange any rituals.

What is prasad, and must I eat it?

Prasad is food offered to the deity and then shared as a blessing, usually a sweet, sugar crystals or fruit. Accept it with your right hand or both hands cupped. It is polite to eat a little, and you can quietly give the rest to your guide or driver. Never throw it away or put it on the floor.
Written and checked by our Jaipur team, last updated 2026-10-16.
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